Hey Mighty - sounds like you're doing awesome. I totally agree with the doing better without any contact thing. As hard as it is, I start to focus so much more on my own life than what he's doing. I have had enough of the 'spinning' and I now know what sets me off. I don't want to waste any more days spinning - I think we've both had enough of those days. Keep doin' what you're doin' Mighty. You're on your way. (P.S. - I talk to myself too sometimes. I run across people at the store doing it too!)
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15