DD is finishing her freshman year at a local university, living in the dorm and still discerning a major. Beautiful inside and out, a wonderful young woman.
Finally seem to have found a stable job in the very unstable world of healthcare; have been here 2 years.
Not dating; one pseudo-relationship in the past 7 years since xh left. It never really took off, I believe he's now married to someone he often described as "just like <me>". No desire to have any further relationships.
Lost my faith, which has been disorienting, but survived and my life is more stable than it has been since the upheavals of 2008 (when I started out here). Life is quiet and rather cloistered, and it's ok. I've learned to enjoy my own company.
I believe that almost everyone I know from here and in real life whose marriages ended...has remarried. Never one to follow the crowd!
All the best, y'all, from the midwest. don't believe everything you read about hoosiers!


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012