I said I was going to wait until after the wedding in July before further discussion of R. That was my end of the deal. Her end of the deal was NC. I know I'm in limbo. I'm fine with that at this time. Just working on my self. But at the same time I need the intel to give me a heads up. To know my odds. She could be NC & intent on salvaging the M after the wedding, or she could be biding her time & planning to jump ship after the wedding. No that knowing one way or the other will change my current trajectory, but it would affect my expectations or rather my planning.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014