We enroll the kids in this summer camp every year as well as D's swim. So I knew those costs were coming. As far as S's soccer camp he called to make sure I hadn't paid it yet.
He has to pay me 10% of any monies he makes over his base pay. Last year's W2 shows he made over $10,000 in bonuses and overtime so he owes me 10% of that or $1000. Instead of paying me the $1000 he takes on more bills like soccer camp and various fees and cell phones. He doesn't want to "exchange cash". His cash flow is limited as we all know. He has been taking on a lot more variable items lately so I knew something was up. The last time we exchanged variable expenses he still ended up owing me $100 so that tells you something right there.
I already documented this conversation with the attorney. I'll mention it in court if I get the chance.
I am also mentioning to the judge how if X dangles the kids in front of me like a carrot for incentive to do what he wants me to do.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"