Monday I got a text from W about her having a dream about leaving family and living in a flat. She woke up and realised it was true.
Monday afternoon W called me very upset and apologised for text. I wasn't sure what to say so I listened while she explained that L/C had told her that this was a journey she needed to take for W to realise what she had and had lost.
Tuesday W called me to say that she was having a bad week and apologised again for Her text. on Wednesday , W called to tell me about her family and kept me on the phone for about 25 mins. She told me she is always sad and doesn't know what to do. I validated her feelings but didn't dwell and changed the subject to my work and various problems and customers she would know. She called again about 2 hours later and again talked for about 1/2'hkur. W stays in house on a Wednesday night and when I got home she was very chatty but not happy. Mi went off to garage to do a bit of work on S20s bike and when I came back up W was waiting to chat After this she and S20 went into the other room to watch a film. I went into them later to say goodnight and S 20 was heading upto bed. I said goodnight to W but she asked me to hang on
W asked if we could talk. She started by saying that D10 Had asked her if W would ever come home. W answeed maybe but she wasn't sure. I thanked W for her diplomatic answer and W said it was the truth. W said she missed the family very much and had nothing left in her life. She talked about Monday's text and how she had no one to talk to W then asked me how I was doing and if I would be honest as I always said I was ok
I told W that I WAS on but obviously life was harder now and my biggest problem was that I had lost my best friend. W burst into tears at this and said that she had lost her best friend and would not be replacing him She then asked if I had a new best friend, I was vague and told her it was a tough time for us all but life would be better again
W then said sorry for how she acted last year and she didn't leave me but just wanted a break from the stress and a the issues we had. I said I didn't want to go over the past as we both agree that we are both to blame and discussing it had no upside. W then went on to say she let resentment build up and she can see that now. I didn't respond as I felt that was just going over the past again. W asked how kids were REALLY doing and I said we were all dealing with a new sitch and we would get there. She burst out crying again and said she never wanted any of this I decided that we were getting nowhere so I said we were all doing the best we could and both of us could only do our best for kids.
I said goodnight and W asked for a hug and said goodnight sweetheart As I left she was crying but I went on to bed. This morning W was a bit cold but ok and I haven't heard from her today
I found during the chat W was coming forward and temp checking a lot. I just took a call from another friend of mine who's on Facebook and he said she needs looking after as she seems very down !!
I know not to read anything in our chat other than W is down at the moment.
Sorry for blow by blow account but it helps to type it out Thanks for stopping by (if you got this far !!!! ). Take care all. Rd
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