Well we shall find out once my contempt papers are signed. We will see what the judge has to say.

X called today to tell me he signed S up for soccer camp and the kids up for summer camp as well as D is signed up for swimming. I told him, you know X, I can pay for some of these things too. He explained he had recently received a bonus and didn't want to exchange cash so he would just rather pay for all these things. So he is making more money at his job and just covering more variable expenses so he doesn't have to give me money. Ugh.

He also asked me about my intent of putting D in daycare next fall. I explained that since S was going into high school and had soccer practice every day after school I needed someone to watch D. He asked me if I was taking on those expenses by myself because he wasn't paying half my daycare bill. I said technically X, you are responsible for 1/2 of it. He said he wouldn't pay it and if I was (again) going to be difficult, he would take me back to court and have the courts change it. I said if you feel the need to do that X, just go right ahead.

I am sure the judge won't look too fondly upon him refusing to pay and threatening me about it. The judge also won't like the fact X is hindering my communication and interaction with the kids if I disagree with him. He probably thinks he can have the judge make me send the kids to his place after school so OW can watch them. Over my dead body.

He also mentioned he didn't want a scene like what we went through with the Right of First Refusal. I said just so you know, you are still wrong about that. He said he wasn't and I ended the conversation.

I guess we will see who is right and who is wrong.

WH

AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"