Mleigh .... thing is YOU see it, that's big. I think in a way we are/were faced to deal with so much so fast that we can only process it in chunks at a time ... but for them, its like they want us just where they left us, like in a time lock, unaware of anything that has happened, and that is just not possible.
The LBS grows and gets better, becomes independent .. I think what you are feeling is perfectly normal provided you are not running around your house like those birds in Nemo saying 'mine mine mine ... mine mine mine' Your sitch seems a bit different as there still is no sign of a OW, just your H out in la la land doing his walk-a-bout which may be better or worse I am not certain. I agree with job and do think setting some firm boundaries would be good for you both ... I know when I set them it was for me, not to punish her, end result was gaining some respect that I had lost over the years back. Slow process .. .but again in MLCville what isn't?
Your sitch seems a bit different as there still is no sign of a OW, just your H out in la la land doing his walk-a-bout which may be better or worse I am not certain. I agree with job and do think setting some firm boundaries would be good for you both ... I know when I set them it was for me, not to punish her, end result was gaining some respect that I had lost over the years back. Slow process .. .but again in MLCville what isn't? 