Ripken - LRT with Wayward Wife and Divorce Filing

[Ripken8]

That helps. Thanks for showing me to slow down. I won't have an attorney officially representing me until TUES - earliest we can meet. Wife texted me that her attorney wants me to pick up the paperwork - I will do nothing. My attorney to me the 21 day clock to respond doesn't start until I'm served or sign/pick them up there - why speed up that process.

When/if she asks me about it tonight, I'll simply tell her I'm weighing my options and need to look at what's best for me and our sons. I'm sure at that point she'll have the sheriff serve me at work tomorrow/Monday, but I'm ok with that.

Ready to try and GAL and continue to work on me. Have counseling once a week and DB coach once a week and this forum. So I'll slow down and work on detaching.

Only looked at reviewing the bills as a way to ensure she pays for things too while she's in the house and doesn't just use the money in her account for her own things/affair/etc.

But again, I can calm down and wait.