Well, I guess that my feeling is that you can love someone without being in love with them all the time.. But I thought that we had a relationship that could take a rough patch but maybe I was wrong..
I do however want to see if we can find our way back to all the love we have shared. The fact that we are not living together has with our work situation and not that we don't love each other. Or loved, maybe I should say now.. Maybe I'm the only one who loves at the moment.
From my earlier experience of divorce I've learned that love is a verb and you need to work at it.. I want to, I hope that he will come to the realisation that he also wants that. I just don't know how to best get him to see what we have is something worth fighting for..
I will try to keep the butterfly in mind.. Just very hard at the moment, when I feel so bad when thinking of what I stand to lose.
And as far as my name.. I live in Sweden and here Tulo is a kind of candy. But I googled it now and see that it's an athlete.. Fun!
Thank you for your reply!
M: 44 H: 43 ILYBNILWY: 7/4-15 Decided to try to reconnect. "This doesn't work, I have no feelings": 20/4-15 Scheduled "talk" :9/5-15 It's over: 9/5
