Question for you: why do you want to be with someone who isn't totally in to you? I say that given the fact that you've been seeing each other exclusively but not engaged or living together. To me, dating is all about finding out about each other and if it leads to the commitment, great. But if not, that's great too. I say that because it frees both of you up from the expectation of exclusivity so that you *can* find someone who wants to make things work with you for the long term.
Can you look at it like the butterfly analogy where you let him go and see if he comes back to you? Since you've already experienced divorce before, what did you learn from being here to begin with?
BTW, appreciate your name. My daughter wears his jersey...
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
