Right now the focus is on healing him, and then, down the road, bring her in. After giving the IC a lot of background of the past years, parenting styles, FOO issues, etc of both her and myself, IC thinks that the focus should be on S13 for the time being.
And that you for the info on the shots, I will definitely ask the neurologist about them. The meds he is on have minimized the really bad migraines.
We will make it...with the moving plan and some new plans he has come up with on his own, he is having a lot of "future" thoughts. It's a good sign, I think.
Wonka, right now, any New Agey stuff causes triggers with everyone...Xw had 100's of those books, was obsessed with New Age stuff, including that one... she gave S21 an Eckhart Tolle book for his birthday, which I've read (it is good) and was part of the M house library that she took, and apparently on the drive home S13 said "Like it helped her" and S21 donated it to a thrift store.
S13 is very resistant to anything that his mother was into, but he does trust me to find the balance between alternative medicine and standard, and I show him the results of my research trying to teach him how to do the same.
Maybe in time he will open his mind back up to that and find the balance, and I'll do the needful to help...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
