Hi Edz, glad to hear your W is back from hospital and resting. Hope all went well for her. As you say, you would never have dreamed that your W may want to come to yours and sleep - even a couple of months ago. So your sitch has taken huge steps forward in terms of trust, opening up and connection.

I do think the main challenge is probably patience, and just making sure you don't backslide because you can't help giving things a little push. I think you're doing well on this front, and I'm sure it isn't easy...

Hope your W is all better soon. And thanks for your comments about BAWFT. I'm looking forward to having her here, now it's confirmed. I'm not sure what day I'll collect her next week (due to a possible interview...) but I'll keep you posted. Keep up the great work!!

Edit - Start a new thread soon - Cadet

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