I'm very sorry to come here and read that your son is having some difficulties dealing w/the fall out of his mother's crisis. Have you discussed w/the doctor about your son getting shots for migraines? The reason that I ask is that I had a co-worker that would get them so bad that she couldn't leave a darkened room until they subsided. She began carrying medication that she could inject and she was able to handle them much better.
T2, you are a wonderful father and I know that you will do whatever it takes to keep your sons safe. Your son knows that you are there for him and will not judge him. I do hope that both of them, i.e., your son and his mother can finally open up with the IC.
I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
