moving out..... deep breath

[juliegayle]

Thanks matt, Gwen and Job.

I know this is what I need to do. Part of me has been putting off doing anything with separation agreement (besides obviously the cost) is because it would give h a document that would allow him to drop me from his health insurance and that is an expense I cannot take on right now.

However, you are all right. He is not a friend and he is not someone I can trust. A coworker gave me some numbers of places she has heard of that help with custody arrangements at very low cost. I am picking up the phone now. ..