Great advice Cali! I think I am at that point now... But most of the spew so far is just in emails from her... Long, rambling, "everything she thinks I've done wrong towards her and what a horrible person I am" emails... In person she just isn't speaking to me this week. Fun!
BTW -- in my replies to her I am refusing to respond to her accusations (which are false and irrational -- but very definitely her perception of reality right now) and refusing to play the defensive game -- just replying with short responses to direct questions regarding next legal steps -- very professional responses with very little emotion at this point.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015
