Thank you for the advice. I think NC is going to be pretty easy for me. He just never answered me back on anything, so.....I just stopped all together. I do hope to get some kind of answer on some paperwork, and his things. After that, we have no reason to communicate at all until the divorce papers are filed and even then we don't have to communicate. I'm going on with my life as if he is not in it, because he is not in it. I know it's been less than a month, but I really wonder if I want this man in my life period. Sometimes I get angry about all the callous things he has done, but anger is such a wasted emotion. I have to concentrate on my health, anger just stresses me out and makes my symptoms worse. I am just sad sometimes that he was just not willing to work on our marriage. Not giving up yet, but thinking about it. I have to find my own path now. Concentrate on my health and my future career plans. I don't want to nor do I think I can physically go back to my job. That will be a huge change for me. I have been there for 17 years. A lot of my self identification has hinged on my well paying job and financial security, but money isn't everything and change is always good, even if we can't see it at the beginning.
Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
