W just called after her overnight shift to tell me about something good that happened to her at work. I listened to W, affirmed and validated her success, and then changed the subject to the kids. Then, I had to ask W about some banking questions. When we sorted it out, I wished W a good day and told her I'm glad she had a good night at work.
I tried to keep it brief but I didn't want W to feel I was being inconsiderate . I think it's important to do a good job validating W at this time, especially if the A has been damaged or ended.
I know W is giving me bread crumbs here. Is this the right approach? Should I even be answering the phone?
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
