I have a dear friend whose husband is very interested in politics. They aren't financially in a position where he can run himself at the moment but they both know it's a long-term goal of his and they have established specific steps to getting him to that point. She has anxieties about it too but they are close and they play to one another's strengths. She didn't "inspire" him to make those goals or to work towards them. He set them himself, discussed it with her extensively, and they can to some agreements about what she would and could contribute. It was very mutual.
Your H feels the lack in himself and is shifting it on to you because that's easier than solving that lack himself. Be awesome for yourself. That's pretty inspiring.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
