HI CADET!!!! we havent had sex yet. but we came close yesterday, but your right about the disease part. and we have talked about him getting tested before coming home and we sleeping together. i cant have sex and be detached from him. so hard. but instead of having sex, we sat down, he drank coffee and we just talked and hugged. no kissing or sex. just heart to heart talks and holding hands and talking.


Me 34 H 33
Married 2006
S5 D2
BD Jan 2015 EA/PA
He moved out 2/2/2015
Came back 5/2015
Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015