My First Break, Light Shines Yonder

[Pyrite]

this is what i said? Do you acknowledge that the other person is not perfect? As the LBS I am left with knowing everything that i did. As WAS with a new R she can ignore anything that she MIGHT have done. AND

" it is entirely possible that she moves on from here without changing anything about herself and lives a full and happy life."

Her new partner might not have a problem with xxxx for example. xxxx might disappear with this new partner. So this is what i said. I dont think she needs to change her life at all. She has. she thinks it is for the better. And this is likely the case. If she were my daughter for example I would encourage her to acknowledge the things she may have done so she may grow and not repeat. do you perceive there is still a problem? i am not saying what you are implying. i dont want to control her anymore. i recognise that I was and i dont want that.