No judgement whatsoever Alpha, but I don't think you are ready. And you shouldn't be. Which doesn't necessarily mean you should go out on this date.
But don't go for the wrong reasons!

In general I'd also say that you are still thinking too much. Try to relax some more, enjoy your life and don't forget to keep working on yourself.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15