Seems future exh has completely disregarded our verbal agreement that "random people" (aka non family members Aka OW) did not interact with school including drop off and pick up.
Last week there was a morning I had to go to work early. I signed s up for morning day care and he slept over future exh. I had asked future exh that night how the early drop off went and he said fine. Find out today it was all a lie. 2 separate teachers told me they stopped a strange woman they saw walking in hall with s. When I questioned future exh about breaking the agreement he said it was ok because she didn't interact with any one, just dropped him off.
Am I being childish and ridiculous about this. I know I have no control over her interactions with s during his time with future exh. However I don't think she should be involved with things like school, doctors, therapists etc.
I mean this is a person who I filed a police report against for harassment and threats. The absolute worst part of all of this is s spending time with her.
And tonight is s birthday and he had dinner with them as he does every Wed. I made a bday breakfast and we did presents in the morning. I took day off work and did lunch and cupcakes at school.
For the last few weeks future xh had s home by 630. When they were not here by 715 I started calling. He kept sending back those preset texts "I am in a,meeting now " and "I am busy" Finally he answered and said they were doing presents and he would bring him back whenever. .. ahhhhh. School night!!!!
my mother had suggested that my uncle may help me pay for a separation agreement so I could have something official that addresses things like this but he said no.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15
