I'm glad you are having a good day. Be careful that your thoughts do not swing too far to the other side. It's often difficult to stay balanced in how we see things. It is good to see your part, just don't try to take it all. This is what I mean, look at the following statement:

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Why get upset when my W would check out from wanting to do anything with our family?


Maybe b/c she left you with two babies and was gone for five months?

It's fine not to wait for her to join in the family activities, but don't get carried away here.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!