As for the OM, you might want to take a page out of my book: not a peep from me about Ms. Wonka's OW. I did tell her that while I do acknowledge the OW, but I will never ever respect her. Ms. Wonka got all hot and bothered--told me to keep my opinions to myself. Ha!
You really need to take care of yourself and put the focus where it belongs: you and the kids. You deserve so much more than what W is capable of or even offering.
