Also,

Take some time and read Sandi2's threads on the LBH. There are 4 of them, but they all have GREAT information in them.

This is the link the the last one. The first post have links to the previous three.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2551811#Post2551811


life is too short....