The only and I mean ONLY upside to a STBX like Sherman's.... detaching is easy.

My STBX acts like my W 90% of the time. The other 10% I have no idea who she is.

M:42 W:43
T:14 M:10
S:9 D:5
W filed 12/22/14
EA 12/31/14
PA 4/10/15
D final 5/13/15