Yes she fired me as a husband but how does this do any good? If I got fired and told my ex boss "I'm not going to put up with this anymore but if you want to rehire me I'll listen" they'll say "hey idiot we fired u. Move on". I see this as different. She fired me as her husband but maybe through open communication lrt, being positive and not attacking her or making her feel guilty she starts to question what she'd be giving up. I'm not suggesting in doin this that I be her friend or spend time together, certainly not pursue. I'm just questioning the effectiveness of this today
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23