Looks like mixed advice... I'm still confused. ; )
Maybe helping me with a big picture view is best. My W claims that she ended the EA but has not directly asked about reconciling. She is showing interest in doing things with me but that has been the case throughout this whole ordeal.
What's the big picture view for me at this a point? Under what circumstances should I bring up reconciliation if she doesn't?
For example, I know my wife is getting tired of sleeping on the sofa. I usually go to bed first. When I do, the past few nights I have been setting her pillow and a blank on the sofa before I go to bed. Essentially, not giving her an option. What if she tries to get back in the bedroom but doesn't talk about reconciliation? Do I bring it up then?
So big picture plan for my actions... and how do I address the example above?
