Bond,

I should clarify. I *did* use those times as opportunities to shine. But H also *did* cake-eat and then left and started texting OW. That's why, Rubi, I think attending a lunch isn't a horrible idea. A weekend getaway? Ehhhh. I think it's too soon. Unless your W has recommitted to your M and I missed it, I don't think you should be focused on rebuilding your M just yet.

But again. That's just my own opinion. Take it or leave it. wink


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014