mobile, do you have a way to verify if your wife is in an A? It sounds an awful lot like she is. Some say it doesn't matter. As a person who's rebuilding my M after 2 As, I believe it does. Are your cell phones in your name?
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014