Well I said specifically I don't know if I was capable of that. Right now if I have this script with her and she's still staying in the house it's not goin to have an effect. She will say I don't want to work on the marriage which is why I filed and then feel she has to protect herself and lawyer harder. My db coach is saying that doin the lrt going dark and bein upbeat and positive still seems like the best course because it is a 180 and can help maintain open and honest communication that we haven't had since December and also build up some trust in her end.
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
