What I meant by that is I don't want it to be ugly. I don't want a divorce but can't stop her from pursuing one. So if that's what happens I want it to be as fair and unemotional when it comes to finalizing decisions on finances and our kids as possible. I'm worried if I take his approach now after tellin her this last night she will pursue an ugly divorce. My coach said this week stick with lrt would be a big 180 for her. I did tell her last night already we couldn't be friends. So not sure what to do.
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
