I still want to save my marriage. Just talked with my db coach. She said I need to stick with the going dark and lrt like cadet mentioned. Also not to make her feel guilty or attack her. Have short positive interactions and be the best dad possible. Hopefully those changes have an impact and she starts to question. Not bend over and take things but also not be cold and silent. Said she didn't feel I was emotionally ready for the after the lrt yet. What are your thoughts wonka?
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
