Her questions about doing things together are exactly her style... indirect reconciliation. I would have liked to had the reconciliation talk but I'm at work and it was over the phone, not face to face.
Time to bring you back to Earth. A lot of the WASes rarely, rarely talk about reconciliation directly. Instead they drop hints and beat about the bush. They do this because they know they've hurt you and are afraid of rejection so they test waters with YOU...the LBS...to see if you are receptive to it and would not hold the affair over their heads. Ironic, eh?
