Hello again. Well I have just returned from a holiday for myself and some friends. I greatly enjoyed my time. Much easier for me to stay calm when faced with anger from w. I still make mistakes that I think most men make such as trying to fix her problems instead of just listening and offering help in other ways. That angered her greatly and I was fed the line "that's why it could never work". It has become so much easier to let those things fall off of me instead of them getting in and hurting. I just wonder how long she will be angry for. I will continue to only respond to her contact which now we can go days without contact. Drifting further apart. Give time and patients and enjoy my time to continue to better me. I am starting to accept that once women reach this point of running on script they can rarely return. but I still continue to try and be something more stable and strong for her to see. She has become very independent and strong on her own through this. something she always was not sure about in her past. She still seems like such a different person.
