Mozza,
No one is questioning detachment. Bulldog is also M not a W. Bulldog is blatantly calling out that the current path will not work... "In your situation I don't buy the persuer distancer concept and line of thinking that by detaching your wife is more likely to pursue you. She's got her own agenda." He is reinforcing comments made early on about an A. The book is in the queue. Thank you for the suggestion.


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015