Sherman, Mozza... Definitely. Having the children 50% of the time opens a lot of free time and then inevitably I fill it with things that I love to do. The Catch 22 is seeing them 50% of the time.
Bob... I appreciate your sentiments and am flattered. Your story spoke to me when you were in the other forum, I will continue to check in as long as I am posting. I try to promote the ideas that I have read and am implementing in myself. Everyone is different, therefore it is important to find what speaks to you and do more of it. I believe there are many people on here who have the experience b/c they have pieced things back together, those are the real teachers, as experience is always the best teacher.
Bulldog... Your posts are always about a day or more late. I just went back and saw your post. You explained that you doubt the P/D dynamic in my situation, as you believe she has her own agenda (I am well aware that early on you fully believed in some sort of A). So what then?
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015