Other items I didn't mention in history post and should have, both times I packed H's stuff and told him to take it, both times I took his keys to the house and last time I saw a lawyer. I don't like conflict for conflict and I may wait longer but I try not to react in a temper.
Cheers, PureHrt 18 years married, 22 years together Separated since Jan (2nd time in 3 years) 1 child