Thank you Train. Yes, that is exactly right. I know the rules well enough to recite them in my sleep. Once my feelings caught up with my thoughts, executing the rules became natural and felt good. It just took me longer than most to get to that point. It was a long, hard journey but if you keep chopping eventually the tree will fall. Hopefully those who are new here can gain some strength and confidence from my experience. The true goal is to find happiness and peace. With or without our WS.
Me: 45 W: 44 M: 20 T: 31 S 20, D 13
W affair ended 5-13-14 W confessed 5-27-14 W wants to R 4-1-15; I'm not sure Living in same house, separate beds