Excellent post Onguard. I too feel I have reached the point of being able to walk away. You're right, all thoughts and actions to reaching this point were probably see through and not genuine, but now you're here - fully detached - it's easy to just let what will be will be without playing games or using tactics.

In my case I'm separated so I'm not expecting the turn around you have seen at all.

Good luck with how this next delicate phase progresses and I hope you get what you want from things.


BD - 30TH JAN 2015
S - 30TH JAN 2015
PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014)
CONTINUAL TALK OF D
ME: 31
W: 28
T: 10yrs
M: 4.5yrs
D:5, S:6