Cadet I just read the post about boundaries and need to come up with my own. He is taking up too much space in my head and I am trying to restore something by myself. He is giving me conflicting messages or I am just reading them wrong. Nonetheless I feel weak and childish around him.
My DB coach says to continue with the contact and be friends. If it works out it does and if it doesn't we are friends. He is very helpful and will do whatever I need. He is still there for me but it makes me angry that he may be cake eating. The best thing for my kids is that we have a good relationship but what does that exactly mean?
M12 Kids 2 ILYBINILWY 08/05 Reconciled 05/06 S07/12 Moved back 03/13 Separated Again 06/24/13 Back Again (his choice) 02/14 Leaving again 03/23/14 DIVORCED 02/15
