Thanks RD and OTU. Yes, I'm an animal lover, and that has been one of the hard aspects of the sitch - seeing the impact on them too. I'll be glad to have her here. She is actually 20, so more in her 'winter and then some' years. I left her in situ, thinking it was best for her to be in her own environment. But really, I would like to bring her here and I will just try and do it all very gently for her.

H texted back - all about the cat, and very accommodating - saying I should take this & that for her. And her fur was a bit matted - sorry. And just to say when and he'll let our pet care know. Then just ended that he hopes I am well.

It's weird with our text exchanges. There's this big 'unsaid' thing. He suggested we D. I said that wasn't what I want, but wont stand in your way. He said he needed a week to think....and that's about it a month+ later - oh well... So, as Edz would say - I'm keeping on keeping on. Or as I would say - keeping the forward button pressed. Enjoying the spring time.

Have a good day all! xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus