Hi lost. I have started taking the kids to the park. Warmer weather. It's helping by working amd getting my mind off of snooping calling and all of that. Things are a little bit better but still need more work. Is it wrong to want to have sex with him or have sex with him... I'm thinking not but I feel like of we have sex he'll start getting more attached to me. He'll see that our making love is real and not some fantasy. What you think. Even tho I know your answer.
The problem is two or three fold. Men and women view sex in different ways, so although you may feel closer he may not. Also if he is sleeping with someone else then you risk getting a disease. Have you or he gotten tested?
Can you have sex and stay detached?
Depends on the women. Some women are as detached as the men you are talking about. Or it's a transactional thing. So it depends.
