I'm sorry rip. I don't know what advice I could offer. I have had a feeling my wife is saving up to do the same thing. I am going to get legal advice. As hard as it is, wait to do anything tonight. I'm sure wonka will have some good advice for you tomorrow. Listen to the vets here. I have heard a lot of them say, it's not over yet.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"