Focused on Me and My Son 2

[Sherman333]

1st let me apologize for all the typos... amazing what I don't catch when typing from my phone. Ugh.

A lot of this didn't come out until we were well on our way. She was pregnant with S7. Some didn't come out until our divorce process started. Her family still thinks I was the best thing that ever happened to her.

You cannot get a divorce fast enough.

Pretrial hearing isn't set until the end of September. Ugh. Lot's of time for "fun" things to occur.

Yeah with the first husband, she left her marriage by sleeping with her then boss too. Claims the boss took advantage of her... I know better. She signaled she was interested. She's always the victim in everything. She ended up getting laid off within the year of us getting together and I assisted her with going back to school.

Whole thing is a stupid sad story.

Did I mention that my therapist thinks she's a covert Narcissist based on our interactions (instead of the BPD)? Plus if you look at her Facebook page right now... she's soo into herself. I still think she's a touch bipolar as well. In one evening she went from livid, to sobbing, to livid, to dead calm in 30 minutes.

The tell tale signs to help you recognize a covert narcissist

• Emptiness, seems to have something missing that you can’t quite put your finger on
• Stubborn, rarely apologising unless they want something from you (see narcissistic supply)
• Ability to make you feel guilty, even when something is not your fault
• Entirely self centered; they are the center of their own universe
• Expert liars; charming, hypnotic, a master of manipulation
• Projecting their insecurities and defects onto you
• Very sensitive to constructive criticism
• Inability to form intimate relationships
• Inability to feel genuine remorse
• Blaming others for their problems
• Low emotional intelligence
• Highly materialistic
• Extreme lack of empathy
• Superficially charming
• A victim mentality.

I can give examples of all of these. This is the other side of the coin from BPD. The difference is the perception of self.