Yes, I do get focused on H's behavior....and it's not so I can feel empowered or righteous its because it's really hard to look at this person you think you know and you've pledged your life to and wonder who the heck they are.

Sometimes I don't get it right, but I'm doing the best I can in a sh**ty situation. I read every book I can get my hands on, done some self reflection and positive thinking studies, trying to regain my independence and go out with friends more.

Me:36 H: 29
T: 4 years
M: 2 years
No kids
In-house sep 10/4/14
H moved out 1/2/15
Talk of D 4/9/15

"She's standing on a line between giving up and seeing how much more she can take" John Mayer