I keep forgetting to tell you what a smart move it was going to the police and giving them a heads up on your situation. That was brilliant.
With her first husband, she got him arrested on a domestic. I figured I wanted meet the local PD under calmer circumstances. I also let them listen to some of the recordings.
So far I haven't had to leverage that specifically, but it helps me stay a little calmer knowing about it.
Another key thing women sometimes do in this situation where the husband has firearms when there's a domestic call is to exclaim they feel threatened... "THERE'S GUNS IN THE HOUSE'. By taking them out before the "fun" began, I took that card of the table too. By having them in a storage unit and the lawyer has the key... makes it an easy conversation. I can easily justify it to anyone. The STBXW thinks I was trying to screw her out of them.
Oh well.
Last edited by Sherman333; 04/22/1501:31 AM.
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.