Do nothing tonight. You need to get out of the house and go for a walk to process and collect your emotions.
Tomorrow, we will work with you on the next steps. We will work with you on a script for the "not willing to live in an open M" boundary. From that point and on, it will be TOUGH.
Tough as putting on your kelvar helmet and spew jacket because once you state your no-OM script to W, she'll come out of her foxhole with guns blazing.
Start mentally preparing yourself for that route should you elect to proceed with it. We all are here on standby ready and willing to assist you.
