I definitely don't want things to be swept under the rug. That's absolutely part of the reason why we didn't properly reconcile during her first EA.
I guess I just need help with some "what if's"...
What if she wants to start doing more things together?
What if she wants to share our bed again?
What is she tries to kiss me or be intimate?
What should my response be to these "what if's" so I continue showing her strength? What do I do so that she doesn't get the impression that we HAVE reconciled simply because she claims she ended the EA?
I know what to do if she initiates talk of reconciliation (no contact letter and transparency). I don't know what to do if she tries to sweep everything under the rug and go on like everything is fine.
