Originally Posted By: Cadet



Does she talk to you?
Yes. She tries polite conversations. She is not nagging or anything. Just normal stuff.

How do you know that she is upset?
That is me mind-reading. Funnily enough I just gave someone else the advice not to pretend to be a mind-reader. There you have me...

Personally I think you speak with actions and not words.

There are NO words that are going to FIX her or make her
feel better.
If she wants to move out then that is her choice. [/quote]

So I just continue my 180, GAL and detachment, the 37 rules and do not interpret anything at all? Stay true to my goals and let her d if she wants to? Well, as I have said...to give advice is one thing. To use it on your own life is quiet another pair of shoes.

Last edited by koalada; 04/21/15 06:03 PM.
Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out